I have a ton of people around me that do it, and yep, they’re mostly renters who talk about wanting to own but it being unaffordable (we’re in a LCOL state), can’t do things with their friends because they’re broke. I’m not cheap by nature but paying delivery fees to avoid a 10 minute round trip, that would do me good because I’d be out and active for a second - just no. Then I start thinking about how much I really don’t need to drive to severely overpay for low quality food that’ll harm most parts of my body, and I usually cook something instead out of relatively whole foods which costs 3/4 as much and won’t leave me feeling guilt.
I can’t confess to being quite as wholesome as you (well, at least your food decision-making lol) but you’re on top of it, ya love to see it. I have, though, been making much more thoughtful choices about how much factory farmed meat I consume. Getting it down pretty low these days, but it helps that I have an Indian spot nearby with vegetarian food at least as satisfying as any meat-based dish. Malai kofta, unnnnfff.
Side note - since parts of this thread run the risk of shaming poor folks for “bad” financial decisions - I’m not going there (and I don’t think you were either, you sound compassionate to me). It’s a problem to a degree of course, but also being super (often hopelessly?) poor really screws up the brain. Speaking from experience. Scarcity, even self-imposed, can sometimes take me to some dark places, most notably back to personality traits that I developed in those days that I have done tremendous work to repair. Our systems are deranged and nonsensical, not our poor.
I have a ton of people around me that do it, and yep, they’re mostly renters who talk about wanting to own but it being unaffordable (we’re in a LCOL state), can’t do things with their friends because they’re broke. I’m not cheap by nature but paying delivery fees to avoid a 10 minute round trip, that would do me good because I’d be out and active for a second - just no. Then I start thinking about how much I really don’t need to drive to severely overpay for low quality food that’ll harm most parts of my body, and I usually cook something instead out of relatively whole foods which costs 3/4 as much and won’t leave me feeling guilt.
I can’t confess to being quite as wholesome as you (well, at least your food decision-making lol) but you’re on top of it, ya love to see it. I have, though, been making much more thoughtful choices about how much factory farmed meat I consume. Getting it down pretty low these days, but it helps that I have an Indian spot nearby with vegetarian food at least as satisfying as any meat-based dish. Malai kofta, unnnnfff.
Side note - since parts of this thread run the risk of shaming poor folks for “bad” financial decisions - I’m not going there (and I don’t think you were either, you sound compassionate to me). It’s a problem to a degree of course, but also being super (often hopelessly?) poor really screws up the brain. Speaking from experience. Scarcity, even self-imposed, can sometimes take me to some dark places, most notably back to personality traits that I developed in those days that I have done tremendous work to repair. Our systems are deranged and nonsensical, not our poor.