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Cake day: October 3rd, 2023

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  • shneancy@lemmy.worldtoAsk Lemmy@lemmy.world*Permanently Deleted*
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    10 days ago

    i much prefer doing positive attention baiting. on tiktok especially i like going to small artists’ channels and saying nice things about their art (that i do mean), they reply quite often :)

    sometimes i even get an amazing treat in return! - more art! not always, but sometimes, i notice artists posting more after i visit their channel a few times. It really makes me feel this comfortable warmth in my chest


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    10 days ago

    i’ve got no idea man. maybe trying to do activism?

    my imperfect solution was to limit media intake, i’m fully aware i’m just holding hands in front of my eyes pretending i don’t see - but you know what, i’m no longer depressed, i’m no longer riddled with anxiety… so i guess plugging your ears and going lalalalala works. (i have to add that i do my best to stay kind of informed, but not too much. basically whatever memes give me, i’ll know)


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    10 days ago

    anger is a natural emotion everyone experiences, it helps us express the strength of our beliefs - if you value justice and kindness, you should be angry when faced with injustice and malice. it’s normal for someone who experienced something tragic (and preventable) to feel angry at those who allowed it to happen regardless of how much time has passed. that anger should lessen over time, but it will never be fully gone. if it gets in the way of living it should be addressed, but one can’t just “get over it”


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    10 days ago

    i think a therapist should be able to help their patient with feels that are the correct reactions to a situation, without resulting to a “why aren’t you over this already?”

    i bet this specific form of anger also makes the patient feel incredibly hopeless, so their mind has a choice - to feel anger, or despair, they chose anger, and it needs to be worked through in a healthy way, not just gotten over with