I (32 F) like the look/vibe (love the flannel/plaid look especially). I also like how intimidating they can be. I’m not sure how I’d go about trying to find one, though.

  • Cethin@lemmy.zip
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    3
    arrow-down
    1
    ·
    2 days ago

    Note, this says “connotations of low social status.” The “urban black” culture usually has this same connotation. It isn’t a rule that people from either of these groups have low social status, it’s just associated with it. This is not racist, though the association could be viewed as problematic, but that is a cultural issue, not an issue with what the user above said.

    • curiousaur@reddthat.com
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      2
      arrow-down
      2
      ·
      2 days ago

      They didn’t say urban. They said act and dress like a black guy. What do you think “acting and dressing like a black guy” means, exactly?

      • Senal@programming.dev
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        2
        ·
        2 days ago

        Sounds like you have an idea of what it means to you and are trying to foist that upon others.

        The lady doth protest too much, methinks.