• rhadamanth_nemes@lemmy.world
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    18 days ago

    It’s not easy… The more you try the easier it gets, though.

    When I was younger I thought that “not giving a fuck about what others think” meant that I could be angry and rude, cold, aggressive, scary.

    Nowadays I see it as making myself “vulnerable” by trying to be kind, happy, and to try to make others around me happier, even just a little bit. Not giving a fuck if someone rolls their eyes at me for putting out positive energy is the true form of “not giving a fuck about what others think”.