• null@lemmy.nullspace.lol
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    2 days ago

    “My argument is perfectly clear: it’s that your logic is flawed.”

    That’s exactly what you’re arguing.

    Yeah no shit, that’s why I said it…

    No it concedes that I’m using a bigoted word

    Correct, which, by your logic, makes you a sexist:

    When it’s a sexist term you’re going to be assigned to be sexist just like I’m not stopping to ask the person dropping hard r’s if they think they’re racist

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      2 days ago

      That’s not what I said. Read more carefully.

      That’s what I was referring to, clearly. Though I love how your argument style just keeps getting more and more disingenuous and rude.

      No it means I exampled a bigoted word in a discussion about that word, there’s a huge difference between an academic discussion and using it in my day to day life.

      If that’s the way you need to see it to accept that it is on fact sexist then yes, sure. If rather you think I’m a bigot then you actually be a bigot and use bigoted terms.

      Yeah except that’s me and we know I don’t mean it given the plethora of context but please try to climb that pile you insist on greasing.

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        That’s what I was referring to, clearly.

        So your response to “That’s not what I said” is “That’s exactly what you’re arguing?”

        Even though I explained it to you right after that line?

        I said your logic concludes that you are bigoted for using it.

        Weird.

        No it concedes that I’m using a bigoted word in a discussion about said bigoted word.

        Correct. And:

        When it’s a sexist term you’re going to be assigned to be sexist

        So, according to you:

        • The word is bigoted/sexist no matter the context
        • Using a bigoted/sexist term means you are going to be assigned to be sexist
        • You used a bigoted/sexist term

        Pretty simple stuff, guy. No one made you say these things. You can’t be mad at me because you painted yourself into a corner.

        Yeah except that’s me and we know I don’t mean it given the plethora of context

        Contradicts with:

        When it’s a sexist term you’re going to be assigned to be sexist

        Which is it?

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          Jesus Christ, you’re somehow losing the ability to follow a conversation.

          Why are you quoting yourself?

          It is sexist no matter the context, I’m not using it against anyone so I’m not a bigot I’m just exampling a bigoted word. You’re being obtuse. Is there a way to remove the intended insult from the hard r? No. Can you remove the intended insult from mansplaining? No. So both of those are always bigoted at times you might argue there’s some moral reason to do it but that’s all ex post facto.

          It’s sexist. If you need to see me as a bigot to get that across the so be it but you know as well as I do your argument is void of logic.

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            2 days ago

            So it seems like what you’re trying to say is that it’s possible for you to use that word without being a sexist, depending on the context?

            Yes or no?

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              Use it in a sentence in the correct context, I’ll leave it to you to prove you can remove the insult from it.

              No, its always sexist. Point to where I said the person using it is always a sexist. What I’ve said is if you’re saying someone is mansplaining you’re in fact a sexist and I’ve said you cannot remove the intended insult.

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                2 days ago

                Let’s try this again.

                Yes or no:

                Is it possible for you to use the word “mansplain” without being a sexist, depending on the context?

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                  Yes. We’ve gone over this. You can use it without being a sexist.

                  You cannot use it in the proper context without being a sexist ie. “Greg is mansplaining baseball.” Because that’s clearly a sexist insult.

                  Your think you’re making a point but you’re just rehashing shut you’ve apparently forgotten.

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                    2 days ago

                    Great!

                    So can you give me a single example of a scenario where a woman could:

                    • assess an interaction she had with a man,
                    • deem his behaviour to be “misogynistic”,
                    • not be a sexist herself?