• null@lemmy.nullspace.lol
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    2 days ago

    Ok so starting with the comment you linked: https://lemmy.world/comment/18496795

    That one and the next response we covered, and they are responses to questions, but don’t include the answer we’re looking for.

    Moving on to the next time I ask any questions is here: https://lemmy.nullspace.lol/comment/55968

    Your response was:

    Jesus Christ, you’re somehow losing the ability to follow a conversation.

    Why are you quoting yourself?

    It is sexist no matter the context, I’m not using it against anyone so I’m not a bigot I’m just exampling a bigoted word. You’re being obtuse. Is there a way to remove the intended insult from the hard r? No. Can you remove the intended insult from mansplaining? No. So both of those are always bigoted at times you might argue there’s some moral reason to do it but that’s all ex post facto.

    It’s sexist. If you need to see me as a bigot to get that across the so be it but you know as well as I do your argument is void of logic.

    Is that it? Because if so, that’s also not an answer to my question, which, again is:

    Can you give me a single example of a scenario where a woman could:

    • assess an interaction she had with a man,
    • deem his behaviour to be “misogynistic”,
    • not be a sexist herself?
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      2 days ago

      https://lemmy.world/comment/18443585

      Try again

      Ed:

      Perfect! So we agree that a woman can, without herself being a bigot/sexist/etc, believe a man is being misogynistic towards her. You also confirmed this is true for condescension.

      Lazy, gaslighting or stupid I think you know what my bet would be.

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        2 days ago

        That’s still not an answer to my question…

        What’s the scenario?

        Let’s try this again:

        Can you give me a single example of a scenario where a woman could:

        • assess an interaction she had with a man,
        • deem his behaviour to be “misogynistic”,
        • not be a sexist herself?
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            Dang, I thought you might be done playing your little game, but I guess not.

            Since you’re accusing me of gaslighting now, lets soldier on, line-by-line!

            Is this the line you think is an answer to my question:

            Yeah no one ever denied that.

            Because that’s not an answer to my question.

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              2 days ago

              Ya huh, I’m the one playing the games… uh huh.

              i quoted you exclaiming that you got your answer and your response is “that didn’t answer my question”.

              How so crazy person, how so?

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                You quoted me exclaiming that I got an answer to this question:

                Okay, so if the man is “probably” being misogynistic, that’s enough that a woman can believe they are being misogynistic without herself being a bigot/sexist/misandrist?

                Which is an different question than:

                Can you give me a single example of a scenario where a woman could:

                • assess an interaction she had with a man,
                • deem his behaviour to be “misogynistic”,
                • not be a sexist herself?
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                  Those are the same question the second time is simply you hedging more because you didn’t get to use my answer against me.

                  You’re gaslighting or you’re dumb. Either way go away, you’re not trying to be productive you’re trying to be annoying and gross what?! Mission successful you’re a troll, good job.

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                    Asking someone for an example of a scenario is different from asking them whether they believe such a scenario exists.

                    So, let’s try this again.

                    Can you give me a single example of a scenario where a woman could:

                    • assess an interaction she had with a man,
                    • deem his behaviour to be “misogynistic”,
                    • not be a sexist herself?