I have mid-high ADD and small talks just make my brain jump off all the time and get bored, and then if i continue talking i have no idea what to say, just change topic all the time.

I do like being in a community, but its hard to find people that wanna do the same as you. But is it easier to make friends with similar diagnose? I can join adhd groups, but no idea how much i will get out from it?

Any tips? Thank you!

  • AppleStrudel@reddthat.com
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    1 day ago

    Know when to let go sometimes. When you can start to tell a friend is getting irritated by a discussion (or worse, a debate), drop it, even if it’s naturally hard to do so. You’re friendship isn’t worth whatever inconsequential thing you are getting way too deep into.

    • Edvard@endlesstalk.orgOP
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      21 hours ago

      yee, i talk to much when i start. but i stop when i see his not interested. idk maybe i just suck at this freindship things, and maybe im the one who pushes people away with my self esteem