I have mid-high ADD and small talks just make my brain jump off all the time and get bored, and then if i continue talking i have no idea what to say, just change topic all the time.

I do like being in a community, but its hard to find people that wanna do the same as you. But is it easier to make friends with similar diagnose? I can join adhd groups, but no idea how much i will get out from it?

Any tips? Thank you!

  • lavander@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    1 day ago

    There are a number of communities that are unrelated to ADHD but that naturally attract neurodivergent people. I am thinking of Burning Man community, sex positiveness/kinky/poliamory. No idea why but empirically the more the community is outside the “social norms” the more likely you’ll find neurodivergent folks

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        18 hours ago

        Which of the communities I mentioned attracted you most? Burning man or sex or relationships?

        There are different “entry points” for each of them 🙂

        If you have no idea, I would recommend looking around before 🙂