• HiTekRedNek@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    Parents have the ultimate say-so of what their kids have access to.

    I don’t believe there needs to be a law that says that, no.

    If a parent decides their kid is responsible enough to have their own money, then it’s the parents who are to blame if that kid buys “bad” things with that money.

    Same thing online. If a parent decides their kid is responsible enough to have unrestricted internet access, then it’s their fault if the kid then goes to a “bad” website.

    It’s not the store’s fault. Nor is it the website’s fault.

    We have given away far too much of our parental responsibility over to 3rd parties, and now we don’t know how to parent anymore.

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      1 day ago

      We have given away far too much of our parental responsibility over to 3rd parties, and now we don’t know how to parent anymore.

      A responsible parent can do as you say, but there are also not so much responsible parents out there, so maybe we need a backup option in these cases.

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        1 day ago

        The problem with that is that you quickly become responsible for EVERYONE, and then you wind up right back where we are with government bureaucrats telling parents how to raise their children.

        If a law or rule can be used to harass otherwise good people, then it will be.

        If you give some self-important bastard an inch, they’ll take a mile. Just look at the police.

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          The problem with that is that you quickly become responsible for EVERYONE, and then you wind up right back where we are with government bureaucrats telling parents how to raise their children.

          Ok, so do you think it is better to not be responsible for nodoby ? Good, as long as you are prepared to pay the consequences of this, both at personal level and a social level.

          If a law or rule can be used to harass otherwise good people, then it will be.
          If you give some self-important bastard an inch, they’ll take a mile. Just look at the police.

          Sadly true, but this do not means that we should not have laws.

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      3 days ago

      So you would also support a child buying alcohol online on account of being given money and access to the internet?

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        3 days ago

        Support? Absolutely not.

        Allow? Not my child.

        Make illegal? Nope. Not my business to tell other parents how to raise their children.

        And that’s exactly the problem here. People like YOU, who think that if I don’t want something illegal, than that of course means I like that thing, or that I personally want to do that thing.

        Nope. It has to do with personal autonomy. I’m not your boss, I shouldn’t get to tell YOU what you can do to yourself. Period.

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          Nope. It has to do with personal autonomy. I’m not your boss, I shouldn’t get to tell YOU what you can do to yourself. Period.

          Wait, this way every **laws **is useless then, I am not your boss, I shouldn’t get to tell YOU that you cannot drive while drunk.

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            1 day ago

            Except you forget about the whole “as long as it doesn’t directly affect others” thing.

            Or, more likely, you intentionally ignored it in order to score some “gotcha” for Internet points.

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              1 day ago

              Except you forget about the whole “as long as it doesn’t directly affect others” thing.

              I followed on your steatment. If I forgot it, you also forgot it.

              But my point stand, by the traffic code you cannot drive drunk also if you don’t affect anyone else on the road.
              Generally it is not that you can do something that is illegal thinking that it is ok as long as it doesn’t affect others.

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                Let me turn that around on you.

                You think people should be charged with a crime they haven’t done yet? Because that is exactly what happens in some DUI arrests.

                Sleeping it off in your car but have the engine on because it’s cold/hot outside? DUI.

                Then there are the idiotic open container laws where even an open alcoholic drink is legally a DUI, even if the driver isn’t drinking.

                And if you can’t afford a good lawyer? It’s a conviction. Which goes on your permanent record.

                A guy I worked with had a motorcycle try to pass his company vehicle as he was turning left. The motorcycle driver was killed.

                It fucked the guy up so bad, mentally. He began drinking. Never at work, but he drove a company vehicle. See where this is going yet? If not let me finish.

                A block from his house, he cracked open a beer. Now even if he had chugged it, there’s no way he’d be even slightly drunk before he got home. But he didn’t realize the worker who sold him the beer had already called the police and he was being followed.

                The arrested him for DUI in his own driveway, due to idiotic open container laws, despite blowing a 0.

                He took a plea for reckless endangerment, but it didn’t matter. He was 4 years from retirement. He was fired.

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                  8 hours ago

                  Let me turn that around on you.

                  You think people should be charged with a crime they haven’t done yet? Because that is exactly what happens in some DUI arrests.

                  Of course not, but then maybe the problem is not the DUI law, it is the fact that you cannot fight it if you cannot get a good lawyer, which cost money. Basically your justice system is fucked up.

                  Sleeping it off in your car but have the engine on because it’s cold/hot outside? DUI.

                  Slippery slope. How can police know that you just turned on the engine but not moved instead of driving and then stopping because you fall asleep ?

                  Then there are the idiotic open container laws where even an open alcoholic drink is legally a DUI, even if the driver isn’t drinking.

                  That is a stupid law, I agree, but it is the law.

                  A block from his house, he cracked open a beer. Now even if he had chugged it, there’s no way he’d be even slightly drunk before he got home.

                  Well, he should not have done it. He know the laws. I can feel pity for him in the specific case, but he breaks the stupid law.

                  The arrested him for DUI in his own driveway, due to idiotic open container laws, despite blowing a 0.

                  That was the problem here. The laws is written so you fail either way. Here if I have an open wine bottle in the car but I blow a 0, nobody could do anything to me.

                  But assuming I agree with you, what would be your suggestion to avoid people driving around while drunk ? Or to avoid minors to access porn material ? Aside the charade “parents need to educate they children” that obviously you cannot take for granted.

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                    6 hours ago

                    If they hurt someone, then they get charged with a crime. If they do not there’s no injury to anyone else so it’s not a crime.