Kids make it harder but the other one already has a custody judgement in favor of the father so now it’s just mine to get back.
In fact, as painful as it is, I think you might’ve had it worse. The upside of moving back to my family home to stop paying rent is that now I see some old high school friends nearly every day. I just hop over when I’m feeling lonely, they are used to having guests over nearly every day. Sometimes I just go for a cigarette and leave, sometimes I stay for 7 hours and play couch co-op games.
I’m still on the fence about dating again. I drive a rusty old shitbox of a car and tell myself that it’ll repel future gold diggers. I had a nearly new Mercedes when I met my ex and I’m honestly somewhat blaming that car for attracting her. She’s proven time and time again that cars are the center of her universe.
At this point if I meet someone new, I’m going to have financial criteria before I’m going on a second date. I.e if she has a stable job, her own place with no roommates, and it seems like she’d be able to pay for her own meals if I told her I wanted to split the check.
Kids make it harder but the other one already has a custody judgement in favor of the father so now it’s just mine to get back.
In fact, as painful as it is, I think you might’ve had it worse. The upside of moving back to my family home to stop paying rent is that now I see some old high school friends nearly every day. I just hop over when I’m feeling lonely, they are used to having guests over nearly every day. Sometimes I just go for a cigarette and leave, sometimes I stay for 7 hours and play couch co-op games.
I’m still on the fence about dating again. I drive a rusty old shitbox of a car and tell myself that it’ll repel future gold diggers. I had a nearly new Mercedes when I met my ex and I’m honestly somewhat blaming that car for attracting her. She’s proven time and time again that cars are the center of her universe.
At this point if I meet someone new, I’m going to have financial criteria before I’m going on a second date. I.e if she has a stable job, her own place with no roommates, and it seems like she’d be able to pay for her own meals if I told her I wanted to split the check.