Its clearly not coded into all of us. The “having kids is coded into us” is at least partly “most of us are coded to want to fuck.” We now have options that mean that doesnt have to cause birth.
I expect your “us” isnt as wide as you expect, as this growing global sentiment shows.
But it’s clearly coded into most people. I expected my friend group to not want kids due to our demographic but they’re breeding like rabbits (on purpose)
That was an example. You can look at survey data for the full picture: of those adults in my country who don’t already have children a full 45% want to, and only 28% don’t want them.
This isn’t controversial - it was just surprising to me hence I brought up the anecdote.
Its clearly not coded into all of us. The “having kids is coded into us” is at least partly “most of us are coded to want to fuck.” We now have options that mean that doesnt have to cause birth.
I expect your “us” isnt as wide as you expect, as this growing global sentiment shows.
But it’s clearly coded into most people. I expected my friend group to not want kids due to our demographic but they’re breeding like rabbits (on purpose)
Nice sample size mate
Buddy, if it wasn’t wired into most people, there wouldn’t be over 6 billion people in this world.
That was an example. You can look at survey data for the full picture: of those adults in my country who don’t already have children a full 45% want to, and only 28% don’t want them.
This isn’t controversial - it was just surprising to me hence I brought up the anecdote.
28% is a large portion for “only”. Also, what happened to the other 27%?
Unsure/undecided