• bluGill@fedia.io
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    1 month ago

    As a parent, most of the worry is just unreasonable fear. If you want kids have them. Sure they are expensive, but they will take so much time you won’t be able to do a lot of the other things you were spending money on before. I find it well worth the costs (this is of course a matter of opinion)

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      1 month ago

      I’m only half of the decision tree, but I really appreciate your kind words of encouragement :) we’re trying, but cautiously.

      • 5too@lemmy.world
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        1 month ago

        To anyone trying - if you plan to use a daycare, get on their enrollment wait lists now. Those things are multiple years long! (In the US, at least)