• bane_killgrind@slrpnk.net
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    17 hours ago

    The argument is, some dude insults a guys wife and then he stands up for her. And you said it “never happened”. How exactly are people going to interpret that?

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      16 hours ago

      Do you hear yourself??? Do you actually speak with real humans in real life? My dude or dudette just go away already

      • bane_killgrind@slrpnk.net
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        16 hours ago

        Yeah, usually people are accountable to their words, or speak and write with some intention.

        So you are going to refuse to answer, how does what you said, make sense, in the context of the other thing you said.

        If you don’t want to admit that it doesn’t, fine by me.

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            4 hours ago

            Nah.

            The post is about someone being misogynistic to somebody. This happens all the time.

            Misogynists running their mouths at work functions happens all the time.

            I corrected him when he said this doesn’t happen, and he immediately claimed I think he “beats his wife when she speaks”. Him getting defensive about it shows his first comment is embarrassing, and he can’t really argue it isn’t without catastrophizing.

            I don’t really care about the down votes, I’m trying to get the guy to understand that misogyny happens, and claims that specific stories of it don’t happen make him dishonest and an apologist.

            Like all these stories are allegorical to real things that happen to real people, even if they aren’t writing a biography online at the end of every day.