I was talking about the hypothetical scenario where you gave it to them and were miffed it didn’t go towards food, so I agree 100% with what you’re saying. Don’t give your money away if you can’t afford to let someone else do what they want with it.
A lot of people don’t mind giving someone something they need without placing conditions on it. But it’s okay to be different.
As someone who doesn’t like anything curry, I just want to say I have no problem whatsoever with Hinduism, they’re cool by me