Lady Butterfly @lazysoci.al to me_irl@lemmy.worldEnglish · 9 days agoMe_irllazysoci.alimagemessage-square21fedilinkarrow-up1445arrow-down18
arrow-up1437arrow-down1imageMe_irllazysoci.alLady Butterfly @lazysoci.al to me_irl@lemmy.worldEnglish · 9 days agomessage-square21fedilink
minus-squareMrScottyTay@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up13·9 days agoThat’s like the humble brag of toxic traits “My issue is i care about other people’s feelings”
minus-squaresurewhynotlem@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up7·9 days agoIt’s pretty toxic to be too shy for self care. A la The Giving Tree. That tree had issues.
minus-squareMrScottyTay@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up5·9 days agoNot on this level though, this is like the nice version of a white little white lie. Except instead of being an inconsequential amount of deception, it’s making someone else feel better about themselves on a regular basis.
That’s like the humble brag of toxic traits
“My issue is i care about other people’s feelings”
It’s pretty toxic to be too shy for self care. A la The Giving Tree. That tree had issues.
Not on this level though, this is like the nice version of a white little white lie. Except instead of being an inconsequential amount of deception, it’s making someone else feel better about themselves on a regular basis.