• Krafty Kactus@sopuli.xyz
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    4 days ago

    To be honest, I don’t think a lot of people are ready. It’s a hard thing to deconstruct your faith and if you’re not careful it can take you to some really dark places. For a lot of people it’s the way they find meaning and solace in a world of pain. Ultimately if you can find that comfort without tying it to religion that’s better but not everyone can. That’s my take on it post-deconversion

    • Dr. Moose@lemmy.world
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      Not to offend you but tbh I hate this thought process and imo this smells of superiority complex “peasants are just not ready for reality yet”. The peasants are actually really smart and humans are very good at adapting and changing their world model given appropriate motivation.

      The world is absolutely ready to rid itself of religion.

    • samus12345@lemm.ee
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      4 days ago

      Yeah, going from finding fulfillment through religion to finding it through other means isn’t something you can do instantly.

    • Natanox@discuss.tchncs.de
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      It’s more of a generational issue, really. Convincing someone who was already indoctrinated as a baby and began to “pray” as early as their arm coordination allowed it is almost cruel, really. At that point it’s reality-shattering. Let alone if your religion included any kind of body-modification, especially without anesthesia (that shit burns itself into the very fabric of your brain as a baby). In that case it’s even worse, as it’d entail the realisation that your body has been violated (some may use stronger wording).

      At the end of the day what counts is that you’re a decent person, no matter your stance on religion or spirituality.

      • HubertManne@piefed.social
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        I mean the boomers were the hippie generation so really its only the silent generation that really as a matter of course had that indoctrination and the youngest of them is in their eighties. For those below eighty its about being raised in a culture that can keep you insulated enough to not watch media or meet many people not like yourself.

    • Furbag@lemmy.world
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      I try not to be too judgemental of people who are religious. We are not evolved enough as a species to be able to comprehend the unknown or unknowable, and everyone to some degree has to cope with this somehow, even if we aren’t consciously aware of it. Faith is an easy, convenient and catch-all solution to all of life’s unexplained phenomena, so it makes sense that people tend to gravitate towards it naturally, all it takes is a little push during childhood.

      I take issue with it when religious folk try to force their views onto other people. Proselytizing is one thing, but converting people by duress or force, or by weaponizing the government apparatus to conform to their views and their views only, is where I stop caring about the feelings of those religious cults and do everything in my power to stop them or undermine their efforts.

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      4 days ago

      Also, it really just depends on your age. Have you believed for decades? Not believing at some point in your life will be some kind of earth shaking change.