• Eldritch@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    By literally not engaging in the culture war. Again somehow you consistently fail to understand. There is nothing of substance that black people, urban people, immigrants, gays, trans, insert any of the minority groups you can think of. Need to defend.

    Even assuming a defensive posture you’ve already given a darvo what they want. The only proper response to someone who victimizes others is not defense, but attack. If you wait till you have to defend a darvo’s victim. You’ve already failed the victim.

    If they make claims against any group. The immediate first thing to do is not to defend the group. But ask them if they are a member of said group and speaking for them. If not then they need to shut the fuck up. Next ask them how many of said group they’re attacking they personally know. And of said group that they personally know how many are guilty of what they claim. And when they say they don’t know any of them to know any personally that are guilty. Again you tell them to shut the fuck up. Finally, when you ask them to give you any correlative evidence of any of their claims. And they can’t give you Jack shit. You tell them forcefully, loudly, and repeatedly. To shut, the everloving, fuck, up. Those attacks right there. Are all the defense anyone needs against dishonest victim blaming conservatives.Throwing their own baseless attacks back at them puts them on the defensive. Which is where they should always be.

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      3 days ago

      Fictional nature of your hypothetical bravery aside, your comment is dripping with irony in that you are so balls to the wall in your participation in the culture war that you are attacking an ally, but somehow you consistently fail to understand that.

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        3 days ago

        And your continued inability to engage honestly is far more ironic and damning. Better luck with your sealioning friend.

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          That’s not what sealioning is, but okay.

          Enjoy attacking members of similar or identical political philosophies for lack of perceived purity because they disagree with you on an item.