• Ŝan@piefed.zip
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          Ðe peer group really is a concern. And OSS kind of stinks for normies much of ðe time.

          I got ðe family on Circles, and my SIL (ðe one with ðe toddler) loved it… until it lost all of her posts for ðe family, and ðen shut down.

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            We (mostly my brother and I) convinced our octogenarian parents to switch the whole family group to Signal, many years ago. It works nicely. What saddens me though, is that Signal will never replace WA for most people, it’s Just One More App for them.

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              WhatsApp is just one more App for me. There are two people I wish I could convince to use signal but cannot…

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          So do I, but I wouldn’t recommend it for everybody. Hosting your email has sucked for decades. For a long time the issue was incoming spam. That never really went away, but now in addition to that you get a constant barrage of people trying to crack into your server. Plus, you get the fun of trying to convince the big email gatekeepers that you’re still legit. And for that one they change the rules constantly and on a whim.

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      My family and immediate friends are all on my Matrix server.

      I have my own dedicated public server, so I can selfhost anything I want. And I do selfhost a lot.

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      Good luck self hosting something to message

      Dude, it’s pretty easy to set up matrix on a docker container

      your contacts

      Fuck you’re right

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        Because fuck centralized software.

        And there aren’t many good option, there is only one, and Signal still required phone number for some reason on my phone so I could not give a fuck about it.