I have mid-high ADD and small talks just make my brain jump off all the time and get bored, and then if i continue talking i have no idea what to say, just change topic all the time.

I do like being in a community, but its hard to find people that wanna do the same as you. But is it easier to make friends with similar diagnose? I can join adhd groups, but no idea how much i will get out from it?

Any tips? Thank you!

  • Edvard@endlesstalk.orgOP
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    1 day ago

    yee, it feels like when you dont have any freinds, it feels like your a loner and a loser, but doesnt mean you are. people rather try to become freinds with people who alredy talk with someone :(

    • snooggums@lemmy.world
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      1 day ago

      The way around that is to not think that you are a loner, just someone who doesn’t happen to have a friend present at that particular location. Other people will be in the same situation!