• baines@lemmy.cafe
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    1 day ago

    self hate is often the root

    the biggest homophobes I’ve ever met was a gay couple in Alabama

    • Saik0@lemmy.saik0.com
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      1 day ago

      Right, got it.

      Or just be judgmental yourself?

      And skip on both other options completely.

      A person admitting that they recognize their own issues isn’t automatically self-hate. I harbor no hate for myself. I recognize that my weight is a medical issue and that I need to control it. No part of my choice to actively recognize my issues is self-hate. However, I find your interest in categorizing MY feelings as quite disgusting behavior.