I’m not talking about straight porn, but erotic movie parts, like basic instinct: in the unrated cut we actually get to see Michael Douglas’ penis as he ‘penetrates’ Jeanne Tripplehorn.
The whole scene seems very realistic, including the kissing and the domination.
How can you control yourselves?
What looks realistic on screen is carefully pieced together from countless shots. An erotic moment feels much less hot if it’s the 29th time you’ve performed the exact same moment, and there’s a dozen guys standing around holding microphone booms and complaining about the lighting not being right, and some dude keeps sending for more fake sweat to reapply to your forehead.
Now I’m just imagining Stanley Kubrick getting his start in porn.