• mrgoosmoos@lemmy.ca
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      4 days ago

      I got a message soon after I started talking to someone where they said they wanted to see where their current thing went with somebody they’d met a few times, and like, yeah, thanks and I respect that. it seemed genuine. I was happy to get that message instead of chats just disappearing when it seemed like it was going well.

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        3 days ago

        because chats disappearing is the easy way out. it takes a mature person to not ghost.

        • mrgoosmoos@lemmy.ca
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          3 days ago

          yeah it only made me more disappointed that they were unavailable lol, they were the best match I’ve had and it was over in like two messages, and their last message was just more evidence how decent they were

          still, happy for them