So I’m getting a Septoplasty next week, and I am really nervous about it. Will it hurt? Will I say something stupid under anesthesia? Will my family coddle me afterwards? There are so many concerns I have that make me want to back out.
I’ll start with the background. I’ve had terrible post nasal drip and a stuffy nose for the last three years, which started after I had a cold or sinus infection the week prior. I’ve tried every medication to try and get rid of it (Flonase, Cetrizine, Hydroxyzine, Claritin, Zyrtec, etc), nothing worked. Eventually, I went to see an ENT after turning 18, she did a nasal endoscopy and said that I most definitely have a deviated septum. I got a CT scan later on and she said my sinuses looked great, but that there is a marked narrowing and indentation on my one side. She actually suggested I don’t get surgery, since she believed it was up to me to make the decision and what I thought would be best for my quality of life. I personally had no idea what to do, as I found all of this so confusing. I asked my other doctors what they thought and they said it was a good idea for me to get it done, as they also noticed the deviation and my one doctor who helped me with TMJ issues actually noticed it in a scan I had done on my face (this was before seeing the ENT). He said there was a ton of crap in my sinuses and that’s what’s causing my postnasal drip, and that I should get surgery on it. I decided to listen to him as he has given me so much relief in the last year (he tragically died of cancer a month ago), but I’ve decided that he is the doctor I trust the most.
Anyway, my fear of this began a couple of months ago. I’ve always struggled with the feel of metal against my body, but the actual fear started when my mom was getting a blackhead out of my ear when I was a kid. Either I moved or my mom slipped, but the metal tool she was using unintentionally went far down and scratched my ear canal. There was no major damage, it just scared me because it felt like it had gone pretty deep in there and scratched the bone area of my ear. Since then, I have been really skeptical of anyone touching my ears, or any part of my body where there are bones/cartilage. While I will be put under for my Septoplasty, I am really nervous that I will feel the metal or that it will hurt.
On top of that, I have no idea how the anesthesia will make me act. I’ve heard some people are fine, while others are saying a bunch of stupid stuff. I also worry because my mom had to tell me that I might feel sick afterwards, and to make sure to get an anti nausea medication (which was already the plan lol).
The last thing, which I know I’m overreacting about, is being coddled by my family afterwards. Oftentimes, when I have a procedure or something else done, my parents have a tendency to talk to me in a baby voice, and talk to me forever afterwards, which is what annoys me the most. The other half, asking how they can pamper me and nagging me about how and when to take my medications despite the fact that I stay on top of them.
Am I overreacting? Is this surgery really not that bad and I’m just freaking out for no reason? If anyone here on the Autism spectrum has had this done and felt similar to me, I would love to know how the surgery/recovery went for you.
Thank you so much for sharing this! It’s really reassuring to know someone else who was as anxious as me found this surgery to be easy.
My main questions to you would be, how old were you when you got the surgery done, and did the anesthesia affect you at all after the procedure. I am only 19, and I know a lot of people don’t get the surgery until they’re in their 30s or 40s. I just wonder how that may impact recovery. Regarding anesthesia, Do you know what type they administer and if it affected you at all when you woke up from surgery? Were you out of it or saying anything stupid? And how your family respond to you post surgery?
So, I was 51 when I had the surgery. The post-procedure anesthesia just left me feeling groggy. I remember when I woke, I was sitting in a wheelchair in a waiting room with a very nice nurse waving a cup of ice in my face. My throat was a bit sore. (Apparently from the breathing tube they inserted after I was put under).
I was told I kept asking for more, but I don’t recall.
I don’t think I fully came to until I got home but I remeber a bit of the ride home. Think of it like being a little drunk but wheee you rapidly sober up over the course of an hour or so.
I don’t know what type of anesthesia I was given, but it was GOOD!
They’ll prep you before the procedure and even give you something to calm you if you’ll like. Just ask.
The anesthesiologist should come in before the procedure to go over things with you. You can pick their brain, they’re used to it.
I’m not sure if age has a lot to do with thing regarding the anesthesia, but my guess would be your youth will be a benefit!
As far as I know, I said nothing stupid. You’re going to be very tired. Speech is a pain in the ass when you’re coming to. Those videos of people being weird aren’t common. You’ll more than likely sit there with your head tilted and a hundred yard stare, like a dog after being spayed.
Family here was just my girlfriend. She took good care of me. I was fine by morning! Just a bit sore.
Let me know if there’s anything else! And if you’d like, I’ll be happy to chat with ya the closer you get to the day and after if it’ll help!