• rudyharrelson@lemmy.radio
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    3 days ago

    people who don’t leave the witchcraft stuff behind when they grow up are on par with disney adults and hardcore weebs

    People with harmless hobbies? I see no problem with this. Why would a self-respecting adult care if others cringe at their interests?

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      3 days ago

      This was such an online reply.

      I’m saying it’s weird that wirchcraft is “culturally acceptable” while the other extremely similar “hobbies” draw widespread derision.

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        I’m saying it’s weird that wirchcraft is “culturally acceptable” while the other extremely similar “hobbies” draw widespread derision

        I think you said more than that. You said people would “rightfully” make fun of you, suggesting the derision is warranted.

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          But I don’t expect them to care. It’s not like I’m making fun of them to their faces, I’m just thinking “wow what a dork” when I see an adult obsessed with Disney movies

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            Pick your poison, witchcraft, zen, Christianity… Being able to see things the way a child sees them is an essential part and something you might want to work on.

            I’m going to take a guess and direct you (and most readers) towards a Christian reading, but I assure you, this observation is made by almost all traditions, secular or otherwise, across almost all the world’s cultures.

            Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. - Matthew 18:3

            (Edited for block quote)

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              i would add the following wisdom as well -

              Critics who treat ‘adult’ as a term of approval, instead of as a merely descriptive term, cannot be adult themselves. To be concerned about being grown up, to admire the grown up because it is grown up, to blush at the suspicion of being childish; these things are the marks of childhood and adolescence. And in childhood and adolescence they are, in moderation, healthy symptoms. Young things ought to want to grow. But to carry on into middle life or even into early manhood this concern about being adult is a mark of really arrested development. When I was ten, I read fairy tales in secret and would have been ashamed if I had been found doing so. Now that I am fifty I read them openly. When I became a man I put away childish things, including the fear of childishness and the desire to be very grown up. C.S. Lewis

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          Just like how when you insult a waifus in a weeb community it wouldn’t get you much agreement.