My wife literally had to have all three of those while we were trying to have our twins. She had a double whammy of a rogue ectopic they couldn’t find on scans and an empty gestational sac in the uterus that wouldn’t pass. They knew there had to be an ectopic somewhere because her hCG levels weren’t tracking with what they should be with what they could see on the scans.
So the Catholic hospital we were at gave her multiple courses of methotrexate to make sure they got the ectopic. Multiple scripts for I believe it was Misoprostol to try to pass the miscarriage. But when that didn’t work and she showed up to a monitoring appointment with signs of sepsis, they immediately took her in for emergency surgery to remove it.
Then when we finally got our twins we had to do a late term selective termination because the pregnancy was originally quads, one died early enough to be reabsorbed but was conjoined at the umbilical cord to her twin. That twin had a massive stroke during some crucial brain development weeks and we found out at 20 weeks that she had basically no brain and her constant seizures were actively killing the other two and might even cause her to lose the entire pregnancy.
Literally the only option to save the two healthy twins was to terminate that triplet. Abortion is literally the only reason my twins are alive today.
Sad chuds who can’t argue with the need for abortion in my wife’s particular case but still hate it generally? idk.
I can’t tell you how many conservatives I’ve talked to about abortion with our particular story who just viscerally hate it as a concept because in their minds 90% of the people using it are just floozies who can’t keep their legs closed. Let me tell you, the existential crisis so many of them have when I tell them that even if that were the case, there is no possible way stop just those abortions without also killing babies like my twins is crazy.
Like yeah Buddy, every second that triplet was having those seizures the risk we just lost all three of them grew. On top of that we were measurably watching the two healthy babies slip down the fetal growth charts. As in they were on one growth curve, and they dropped down to a lower curve because the seizures were stealing all the nutrients my wife’s body had. There was a vary real possibility that one or both of these little barely over 20 week old fetuses just died while we waited for this surgery with them rushing absolutely everything because NY is no questions asked before 24 weeks. We finally had it as just over 22 weeks. Sure, theoretically they could have done their “morality check” in those 2 weeks. But realistically that’s not going to happen. What’s actually going to happen is exactly what we already see happening in places where women are dying or nearly dying of sepsis because of these bans.
My wife literally had to have all three of those while we were trying to have our twins. She had a double whammy of a rogue ectopic they couldn’t find on scans and an empty gestational sac in the uterus that wouldn’t pass. They knew there had to be an ectopic somewhere because her hCG levels weren’t tracking with what they should be with what they could see on the scans.
So the Catholic hospital we were at gave her multiple courses of methotrexate to make sure they got the ectopic. Multiple scripts for I believe it was Misoprostol to try to pass the miscarriage. But when that didn’t work and she showed up to a monitoring appointment with signs of sepsis, they immediately took her in for emergency surgery to remove it.
Then when we finally got our twins we had to do a late term selective termination because the pregnancy was originally quads, one died early enough to be reabsorbed but was conjoined at the umbilical cord to her twin. That twin had a massive stroke during some crucial brain development weeks and we found out at 20 weeks that she had basically no brain and her constant seizures were actively killing the other two and might even cause her to lose the entire pregnancy.
Literally the only option to save the two healthy twins was to terminate that triplet. Abortion is literally the only reason my twins are alive today.
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Sad chuds who can’t argue with the need for abortion in my wife’s particular case but still hate it generally? idk.
I can’t tell you how many conservatives I’ve talked to about abortion with our particular story who just viscerally hate it as a concept because in their minds 90% of the people using it are just floozies who can’t keep their legs closed. Let me tell you, the existential crisis so many of them have when I tell them that even if that were the case, there is no possible way stop just those abortions without also killing babies like my twins is crazy.
Like yeah Buddy, every second that triplet was having those seizures the risk we just lost all three of them grew. On top of that we were measurably watching the two healthy babies slip down the fetal growth charts. As in they were on one growth curve, and they dropped down to a lower curve because the seizures were stealing all the nutrients my wife’s body had. There was a vary real possibility that one or both of these little barely over 20 week old fetuses just died while we waited for this surgery with them rushing absolutely everything because NY is no questions asked before 24 weeks. We finally had it as just over 22 weeks. Sure, theoretically they could have done their “morality check” in those 2 weeks. But realistically that’s not going to happen. What’s actually going to happen is exactly what we already see happening in places where women are dying or nearly dying of sepsis because of these bans.
Just posting a resource for Misoprostol in places with limited availability: https://fourthievesvinegar.org/abortion-care/