Pretty sure the (visual) porn I like doesn’t look anything like that horny Duracell bunny’s fever dream we can make out through the description you so graciously provided. Also pretty sure that “perverted men” will look like choir boys next to an actually perverted woman, there’s a few text samples floating around that I think are basically unhinged. But I don’t think there’s anything to judge, the point is that both of these types of media are home to an entire spectrum of wholesome and less wholesome depictions of adult relations.
It’s okay to say they are wholly incomparable, then don’t actually compare them! Or say the opposite, that they are basically the same, and then there’s also no unequality between the genders. It’s just that when you start to pick and choose, and say that one is worse than the other, your position becomes founded on hypocrisy.
Pretty sure the (visual) porn I like doesn’t look anything like that horny Duracell bunny’s fever dream we can make out through the description you so graciously provided. Also pretty sure that “perverted men” will look like choir boys next to an actually perverted woman, there’s a few text samples floating around that I think are basically unhinged. But I don’t think there’s anything to judge, the point is that both of these types of media are home to an entire spectrum of wholesome and less wholesome depictions of adult relations.
It’s okay to say they are wholly incomparable, then don’t actually compare them! Or say the opposite, that they are basically the same, and then there’s also no unequality between the genders. It’s just that when you start to pick and choose, and say that one is worse than the other, your position becomes founded on hypocrisy.