• Warl0k3@lemmy.world
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        Asking for evidence when you’re accused of something incredibly heinous isn’t sealioning, especially when they claim it’s obvious - it’s basic defensiveness. I’m asking them to back up their accusations, and they’ve responded with a list of comments that have nothing to do with their accusations. They’re aggressively gaslighting me, not just about that, and although you were hostile to me initially (and I sincerely do not know why, I appreciated your comment but was genuinely confused by it and if I offended I do apologize) I am begging you to look at what they’re doing.

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      Stop. That isn’t evidence. None of those are accusing me of attacking someone while engaging in DARVO-like behavior, which is the claim you made. I haven’t really made a claim for them to say is wrong other than that the person in the meme should be more direct with their friend, a claim you have never engaged with. That I have been misinterpreted about the spirituality of tarot is the bulk of my explanations elsewhere - something you again choose to ignore. You’re again blatantly trying to gaslight me.

      When confronted with evidence, the perpetrator then attacks the person that they had harmed, or are still harming.

      You’re literally doing DARVO while you do this. You have never attempted to engage with me on this, nor my criticism of your behavior in my previous replies here, you’ve simply chosen to attack, attempt to gaslight and accuse me of being the aggressor.

      Look at your comments. I accused you of being a jerk and attacking me, and you immediately:

      Finally, the perpetrator claims that they were or are actually the victim in the situation, thus reversing the positions of victim and offender.

      It’s almost beat for beat.

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        51 minutes ago

        “I’m not doing Darvo, you’re doing Darvo!”

        Classic. I’ll just leave it up to the peanut gallery to judge.