Maybe tell him that you were shy at first too, everyone is. But it gets easier, especially if you are comfortable with the person you’re having sex with. But it’s supposed to be awkward the first time with someone new. It always is, that’s what makes it special. You’re being intimate, it’s vulnerable- it’s awkward. But you’re both there, accepting each other in their shy state of mind. That makes it more special. So dont fight the shyness. Just accept it. It’ll pass.







Red lentil soup. Cheapest meal I can think of. Boil red lentils with a bit of salt, a veggie broth cube and a little bit of orange curry powder mix. Mash it or mix it with a blender when it’s boiled and ass rice at the end or boil potatoes seperately and add when soup is finished.