I had the exact same thoughts. And I am also an ex-christian.

She is dressed so decently. Yay for ethics and morals.

Go find someone from an African country and let them tell you what is possible. It certainly helped me appreciate Europe more.

… and I can see how I contributed to things going to shit, too. And I did a lot of good things, too.

With the same reasoning, it could be argued that she was toxic, or both God and she.

That depends entirely on your load. A common approach is sharding. Often memcache can help, too.

We will be hiking together until then.

Debian developer/user here. My marriage just works.

Found the american.

Too many adults are absolutely clueless https://www.economist.com/culture/2025/04/10/too-many-adults-are-absolutely-clueless From The Economist

Rowing in sweden. Go there by bike.

so, where is it? i dont see it anywhere.

Not true, the mp3 came all from direct connect.

Came here to post this. Thank you for your service.

Its all about set and setting!

196cm and happy with it. Great for rowing, too.

Can you support her in any way? Give her something personal she would enjoy? Your connection to your daughter is what is priceless to you. Protect it. Love her well, in a way she understands.

I am wise and intelligent.

Interesting. I was considering doing magic mushrooms precisely with that goal. Can you please elaborate? What did you think/feel about while high, and how did it rewire you? Is there a connection you can see in retrospect?