

You’re right in that pissing them off for no reason is a bad idea. I believe the most useful advice (IANAL) is to provide them with the things that you’re required to, which should make things easier for you and only refuse to comply if the cop exceeds his authority.
Off the top of my head:
- Give them your name, license, registration, proof of insurance and whatever else your local laws require you to.
- Do not consent to searches.
- Try to control your emotions to the degree that you can. Getting angry and/or verbally confrontational will probably just lead them to escalate the situation.
- Keep your hands in plain view.
- Don’t make sudden moves or reach for anything that might make the officer think you’re about to become a threat. You may have to say things like “my registration is in the glove compartment, is it okay if I get it?” just to not make them nervous and possibly get them to use force.
- Don’t answer leading questions.
- Try not to lie if you can avoid it, because they’re trained in many cases to detect deception and inconsistencies.
- If you feel stressed out by the situation, try to take a few deep breaths to stimulate the parasympathetic nervous system.
It’s shitty that we have to be so on guard and take this many precautions during any dealings with law enforcement just to not end up in deep shit, but being alive and free beats being dead or arrested.










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