• baines@lemmy.cafe
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    1 day ago

    we need a goodwins law for hating on fat people because it is inevitable there’s gonna be at least one person who ‘harbors no actual hate’ but ‘insert stupid here’

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      1 day ago

      That’s quite interesting respond… The next part after “harbor no actual hate” is me talking about my own weight issues.

      Apparently the qualifier of my own issues is “insert stupid here”.

      Are you actually going to add something to the discussion? Address any of the points? Or just be judgmental yourself?

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        1 day ago

        self hate is often the root

        the biggest homophobes I’ve ever met was a gay couple in Alabama

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          1 day ago

          Right, got it.

          Or just be judgmental yourself?

          And skip on both other options completely.

          A person admitting that they recognize their own issues isn’t automatically self-hate. I harbor no hate for myself. I recognize that my weight is a medical issue and that I need to control it. No part of my choice to actively recognize my issues is self-hate. However, I find your interest in categorizing MY feelings as quite disgusting behavior.