• theneverfox@pawb.social
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      3 hours ago

      It’s really not. It’s the amount of time and frequency, and also how much you’re treating them like a person

      And does no one else know how to look out the corner of your eye?

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        1 hour ago

        Sadly, my peripheral vision is garbage. But still, I don’t stare.

        Well, I do stare, but that’s because I’m dissociating down an ADHD train of thought completely unrelated to the person who happens to be in my line of sight at the time, not actually looking at anything.

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          26 minutes ago

          Try moving your vision, not your eye, to the bottom when it’s dark. You can learn to see in the dark pretty easily, and with practice you can focus and split your attention within your field of vision

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            19 minutes ago

            It’s actually a degenerative eye condition called cone-rod dystrophy. My night vision is also garbage because of it.