Those are all experiences they had. Where the fuck else is advice gonna come from? At least someone who had a divorce knows more about marriage than someone who has never even gone on a date.
While true, it’s worth keeping the context in mind. At a work event I got seated with three divorced dudes who had like 6 wives between them. It was insufferable how much “advice” they offered and based on never having even met me before and the fact I was married kept insisting I would figure out my wife was cruel, vindicative, had no respect for me. and was cheating on me. Women were all terrible and a man could only live his best life without women. They were also grateful that when didn’t sit then with any of those “useless women”. I got told repeatedly how I should divorce and never date again.
See, that’s not advice on marriage, tho. I also have been divorced, and she literally was all those things. But I won’t say not to get married. Just don’t get married to my ex; she’ll fuck you up.
If anything, it’s advice on how to be a misersble, lonely bastard.
That is just shitty culture. Unlikely where I am from. Perhaps there is a jaded dude here or there, sure. Ganging up on someone telling them they should divorce? Sounds crazy.
Feel free to tell those people to just shut the hecc up.
Those are all experiences they had. Where the fuck else is advice gonna come from? At least someone who had a divorce knows more about marriage than someone who has never even gone on a date.
While true, it’s worth keeping the context in mind. At a work event I got seated with three divorced dudes who had like 6 wives between them. It was insufferable how much “advice” they offered and based on never having even met me before and the fact I was married kept insisting I would figure out my wife was cruel, vindicative, had no respect for me. and was cheating on me. Women were all terrible and a man could only live his best life without women. They were also grateful that when didn’t sit then with any of those “useless women”. I got told repeatedly how I should divorce and never date again.
See, that’s not advice on marriage, tho. I also have been divorced, and she literally was all those things. But I won’t say not to get married. Just don’t get married to my ex; she’ll fuck you up.
If anything, it’s advice on how to be a misersble, lonely bastard.
That is just shitty culture. Unlikely where I am from. Perhaps there is a jaded dude here or there, sure. Ganging up on someone telling them they should divorce? Sounds crazy.
Feel free to tell those people to just shut the hecc up.