I just dont date men, don’t smile around men unless it’s mean or im wearing a mask, don’t compliment men even on innocuous things unless they’re like half my age or younger, and yeah, i think about exits a lot.
This is a superior solution, because it actially works and does not make me a target for that garbage gender’s bullshit.
If i compliment a man, it won’t stop hitting on me until i get violent or gross. I’m not even that pretty. Maybe a global 6/10, and i live in souyhern california, so I’m a local 3.
If a man sees me smile it might decide that was flirting, so i only smile in cases where it’s very very clearly not. Then I’ll have to lose it before anything bad happens, do things like hop off a bus just before the doors close (dick move to the driver), climb something (I’m not young, do like nice clothes), or do a ‘frogger’ larp, which is only about half as dangerpus as letting it follow me home¹.
And i absolutely don’t date them; im not cursed to have no other option sexually, so why the fuck would i defile myself with that one?
The exits thing is mixed with other stuff, various ptsd sources, but i expect I’d have put it together just existing around so many monsters like that.
¹which is wild. Again; im not particularly beautiful. About half of all houses contain a woman. This should not be a danger, and yet i regularly need to get all cloak and dagger to deal with almost half the population! Because of course none of them understand “no”! Not when a woman says it!
I just dont date men, don’t smile around men unless it’s mean or im wearing a mask, don’t compliment men even on innocuous things unless they’re like half my age or younger, and yeah, i think about exits a lot.
This is a superior solution, because it actially works and does not make me a target for that garbage gender’s bullshit.
This sarcasm? Kind of sound like sarcasm, but remind me of many women i know.
Nope. It’s how i deal.
If i compliment a man, it won’t stop hitting on me until i get violent or gross. I’m not even that pretty. Maybe a global 6/10, and i live in souyhern california, so I’m a local 3.
If a man sees me smile it might decide that was flirting, so i only smile in cases where it’s very very clearly not. Then I’ll have to lose it before anything bad happens, do things like hop off a bus just before the doors close (dick move to the driver), climb something (I’m not young, do like nice clothes), or do a ‘frogger’ larp, which is only about half as dangerpus as letting it follow me home¹.
And i absolutely don’t date them; im not cursed to have no other option sexually, so why the fuck would i defile myself with that one?
The exits thing is mixed with other stuff, various ptsd sources, but i expect I’d have put it together just existing around so many monsters like that.
¹which is wild. Again; im not particularly beautiful. About half of all houses contain a woman. This should not be a danger, and yet i regularly need to get all cloak and dagger to deal with almost half the population! Because of course none of them understand “no”! Not when a woman says it!
Thank you for clarifying.