• plyth@feddit.org
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    18 hours ago

    It’s not the location. He has to be handsome enough in relation to the couple that they humor the intrusion but not too handsome in a way that threatens the bf.

    The backfire that OP is feeling comes from him being aware of his unexpectedly low handsomeness level.