• BanMe@lemmy.world
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    1 day ago

    My friends bought me a dance from a male dancer, in a private booth… once in there, the guy told me they’d paid for a blowjob as well. I kept my dick in my drawers and we chatted for a few minutes instead. Who the fuck wants paid sex, ick

    • 1985MustangCobra@lemmy.ca
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      1 day ago

      I mean, the thing is, is that if your ok with that, you do you, but for me, sex isn’t like somthing i do so casually with anyone like that. There’s of course that thing where “men” are supposed to enjoy it, but for me, i had a feeling inside that this was wrong and not the way i enjoy doing things. I mean there was nothing wrong with the stripper she was a nice and i went for a smoke we chatted, but im kinda more like “can i buy you a drink and lets talk” kinda person not “netflix and chill” type of person.