WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]

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Cake day: December 31st, 2023

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  • Is he asking because of a specific person he’s in the type of relationship where that would be normal or just non-specific hypothetical?

    Kinda curious how many people who have had sex felt like this beforehand and how people’s thoughts like this have changed with the generations.

    I can’t provide any advice since I can’t really imagine not being uncomfortable with such a scenario. Like, its hard to emotionally understand how so many people eventually have sex and isn’t some niche thing some tiny minority do. But I’m ace and trans.







  • I think part of the problem with guys trying to find sex, is chasing it from people who are in no way interested. So if Tom flirts with Sally, but Sally is asexual, then Tom has a 0% succsess potential if he hits on her at the bar. But he doesn’t know that. So after he gets rejected, now he feels bad about himself. Nobody likes getting rejected.

    But if Tom went on nsfwlemmy, and found [email protected] then he would know that she’s just like a Buffalo NY city street in December. Ready to be plowed.

    Idk, that sounds like the type of username some aces I know would use. Granted, they’re also the type who’d love to be spitroasted…








  • I’ve had general anesthesia 5 times (3-4 for surgeries) and was given ketamine for another procedure (in a vain attempt to not need the 3rd surgery). None of them were bad. The one time I requested not to use gen anesthesia but they insisted it was required, they were at least light on the dosing, so I was functional quickly and back to normal within a few hours of that.

    Most of the times, my parents were there as I recovered from the anesthesia and never did I say anything I didn’t want to say (the ketamine and most recent gen anesthesia were both after I realized I was trans and hadn’t told my parents yet, but one of them had a tendency to ask prodding questions… And post-anesthesia was no exception).

    I haven’t had any issues with any particular problems with my surgeries. Some of my other preexisting medical conditions may have caused some inconvenience for the doctors/nurses, but those are just my normal problems.