• Mac@mander.xyz
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    1 day ago

    i blame victims

    Yes, we established that.

    … contingent on their attitude

    That’s fine, it doesn’t negate my point.

    • grysbok@lemmy.sdf.org
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      23 hours ago

      I think they’re blaming the victims for being assholes, not for being victims.

      Just because you’ve been hurt doesn’t mean you get a free pass to be a jerk.

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        24 hours ago

        As opposed to licking the boots of anyone with a slight level of power?

        Every time.

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          22 hours ago

          Ah, I see where you’re coming from now. No, you don’t have to glaze me to get the support that you need, but you sure as hell don’t get to verbally abuse me because you made a mistake and are too much of an narcissistic asshole to reflect on that mistake.