My son has been diagnosed with bipolar disorder. He’s in his mid-twenties, so it’s the average time for onset of bipolar disorder. No family history that we know of, but if it was just two generations back, it probably wouldn’t have been talked about.

He had his first manic episode early in the year. He spent a brief time in in-patient treatment, followed by a period of out-patient treatment. During the out-patient treatment, his psychiatrist started to think the diagnosis was incorrect and she weaned him off his meds.

He has had another manic episode, and he’s back in the in-patient facility. Luckily he was able to get back into the same place he was in before, so they aren’t starting from zero. They started him back on different meds, and he’s much better much faster than the first time.

His fiancee was talking to a friend and someone overheard. The person who overheard said her mother was bipolar and she had to take her to the hospital six times, and she told his fiancee that she should break up with him.

The only experts I’ve spoken to have been the doctors in the crisis center, and I don’t know to what degree they are trying to sugar coat things to prevent us from giving up hope.

I’d rather know the reality.

If anyone has any personal experience they can share, I’d appreciate it. If anyone has any professional experience they can share, I’d appreciate that as well.

EDIT: Just wanted to add to this that we were able to visit him today, and he’s doing very well.

  • moonlight6205@lemm.ee
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    2 days ago

    My personal experience is that when things start getting better, always question whether it is really getting better or is it just the manic phase. I have stopped taking medications twice when I started feeling better, only to crash a month or two later.

    What worked for me was fixing the depression phase (the more concerning one in my case). I started working out and it killed my depression. And mania never came back. I am not taking medication since at least 2 years now.

    Of course everyone is different but you have to try. I know it is very easy to succumb to hopelessness because everytime you get better, you get worse but it is manageable.