Hello, Im kind of new here and trying to get used to Lemmy and I was wondering about if this is true since I am considering donating on this site to support alternative projects but wanted to hear other users before doing so. That being said, what have been your experiences?

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    Technically, yeah. Some instances are run by tin-pot dictators with delusions of godhood, but if you get banned from one of those just switch to another one.

    The communities tend to be bubblier, though, since they’re small. So if your opinions don’t match you’ll get shouted down harder.

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        There is one nice feature that pushes back against hive-mindedness here that Reddit lacks, at least; you can see your upvote and downvote totals rather than just the single aggregate total. Reddit used to be like that years ago but they got rid of it.

        That means that if you say something that gets a ton of both downvotes and upvotes you can at least know that there were a significant number of people who liked it it. Over on Reddit saying anything that netted negative karma felt like screaming into the void.

        Oh, and the small population means that downvoted comments are still likely easy to see. That helps too.

        Still, the Fediverse does feel more strongly bubbled than Reddit does, from my subjective and anecdotal position.

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          Yeah. Basically, I go to Reddit for independent information. I come here to essentially get yelled for having a nuanced take.

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            A nuanced take on Reddit is pretty much a guarantee of downvotes and arguments against things your weren’t saying

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              That’s not been my experience. Perhaps it’s the subs I tend to post in? Either way- a nuanced take is FAR less likely to be accepted here.

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        10 hours ago over in [email protected] you saw a picture that you rather liked but that was getting a lot of downvotes and you didn’t know why. You were told by @[email protected] that “lemmy doesn’t like AI”

        Also 10 hours ago over in [email protected] you said “I know its an unpopular opinion, but I don’t agree with punching Nazis. It makes them look like a victim, and violence never works.” You got a bunch of downvotes for that yourself.

        Just a couple of examples of situations where an opinion that was against the consensus view of the community got “punished.”

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        Lemmy.world, so the largest general ‘bubble’ so to speak. You’re on the generalist, relatively moderate instance.

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          I feel like when people describe anything as moderate on the fediverse, they’re really taking about the middle ground between centrism and true communism. And somehow that’s still icky for some people’s tastes. Lol

          I would never in a million years describe myself as moderate and I find myself agreeing with the great majority of opinions I come across. That’s how the general vibe of the entire instance feels, and it’s still not leftist enough for some folks, somehow.

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              Yeah, I’m not commenting on whether it’s a relative term, but where that line falls. It’s already quite left, and somehow people are still clutching their pearls.

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            the point of being a extremist is nothing is good enough for you. it’s a quest for ever more extreme views to feel superior/purer than the unwashed non-ideological masses.

            the ‘drug’ of extremism is that it makes feel people feel ‘special’. ONLY they know the TRUTH.