My wife and I have been married for 30+ years and we figured out that the key to a long healthy relationship is all about how well you put up with/tolerate each other’s bullshit. We all have our bullshit.
Sex is one part of the tolerance column, as is how well your partner’s company is mentally stimulation, how well you like each other how well you compliment each other on handling the business of life and if you just like the other person. Also there is a lot to be said about knowing boundaries.
I like to game. She likes to read “smutty romance” novels (as she calls them) so that is a good match as I go off to slay demons in the digital world for a few hours a couple times a week she will then read about mandible man with a glistening chest…
So the sex needs to be really good.
Now my answer to your question for when I was a single soldier stationed in Germany. It was all about the HTA offset. If the Hips tits and Ass offset the noodle than I was good.
This really isn’t what you’re asking.
My wife and I have been married for 30+ years and we figured out that the key to a long healthy relationship is all about how well you put up with/tolerate each other’s bullshit. We all have our bullshit.
Sex is one part of the tolerance column, as is how well your partner’s company is mentally stimulation, how well you like each other how well you compliment each other on handling the business of life and if you just like the other person. Also there is a lot to be said about knowing boundaries.
I like to game. She likes to read “smutty romance” novels (as she calls them) so that is a good match as I go off to slay demons in the digital world for a few hours a couple times a week she will then read about mandible man with a glistening chest…
So the sex needs to be really good.
Now my answer to your question for when I was a single soldier stationed in Germany. It was all about the HTA offset. If the Hips tits and Ass offset the noodle than I was good.