• Widdershins@lemmy.world
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    When I met my SO she had two sister cats. One you could hold like a baby and the other is friendly but didn’t like to be held and fought pretty hard to escape. She said she doesn’t like to be held. Long story short that cat will purr in my arms when there’s milk about to be served because she is a milk hound. Bribery aside I think the cat just doesn’t like when her human is walking around while holding her. Like car sick but for cats I think.

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      Almost no cats like to be moved outside their own power. I’ve had cats forever and most don’t care to be held but almost all hate to be carried.

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      One of my favourite details in the legendary video game Dwarf Fortress is that dwarves can adopt most tame animals, with one exception: cats who like dwarves adopt dwarves who like cats. 😻

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      Are you saying someone could put any text over an image of a cat? I doubt it, then it would be lying. And people wouldn’t do that

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        Actually I was saying that whoever wrote that was being silly for thinking the cat didn’t like them. I can’t even imagine a scenario where text over an image of a cat isn’t accurate. That just doesn’t happen.

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      Can confirm. Takes four six months minimum. If you have other cats sometimes it can take years for them to feel comfortable in their new home.

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      Yeah my kittens took about a week before they would actually come out and be visible while we were in the same room. For that first week, they would only come out to eat when we stepped out or were asleep and they’d hide all day if we were in the room with them

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    Cats not looking at you is often good! It (usually) meams they trust you enough to not feel like they have to watch you. Obviously a cat that likes you will often look at you, but a cat that doesn’t trust you will likely be keeping a close eye in case you do anything threatening

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    My boy cat switches between hiding under the bed and running around like a maniac throughout the day, but bedtime is snuggle time.

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    Cat body language is different. Not looking means he doesn’t consider you a threat. Staring means agression.

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    I have to look after my mom’s three cats for two weeks, which she insists will want to sleep next to me.

    Usually they don’t want to be near me.