I’m 23 years old, but I look 14. I always looked younger than my age, even when I was in school. I’m 167 cm, which is the standard female height where I live, so I guess it’s my face, something with the shape of the bones, I dont know. I am sincerely convinced that this is the main reason why men have never approached me. I’m also quite socially awkward and not very pretty, but that’s usually not a problem for other girls, so I think it all comes down to my child-like features. I’ve never seen men look at me with desire, or that they’ve ever been shy when talking to me. I feel completely desexualized and lonely and I suffer so much because of it. This problem sounds so stupid and absurd, but that’s what I’m dealing with… At the very least, it’s probably worth being glad that men aren’t so attracted to childish features in reality…
Sorry if this post is too messy, I don’t feel well while I’m writing this.
I want to look natural. I live in a village, there are no bars here.
I mean, found the problem. If your villiage can’t support a single bar, then odds are the population is extremely small. All the guys in town have likely already met you and assumed you aren’t interested, or would feel awkward approaching an attractive stranger in a town where gossip moves around quickly.
Move to a city. Go clubbing. You’ll get hit on.
There is no matchmaker in your village?
No…
Your family should be helping you.
My parents are happy that I’m single, they’re too protective of me.
That seems strange. Maybe leave the village?
Matchmaker, matchmaker, make me a match…
Is that actually a thing that exists nowadays?
It’s almost like the USA is the entire world.
I’m not in the USA lol, but I am in the western world
There are still many arranged marriages, yes.