I’ll spare the details and just give you the highlights:

• She put me through years of domestic abuse, gaslighting and manipulation
• She had zero regard for our family’s financial future and nearly pushed us to the brink of bankruptcy
• She walked out on me and our son to become a literal crack whore

Heed my words, dudes: if you must have a joint checking account, have your direct deposit go to an account only in your name. I didn’t and she cleaned me out to buy crack.