• ivanafterall ☑️@lemmy.world
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    Pro-tip: when jokingly greeting your Ukrainian friend with bread and salt, DO NOT dump the salt on the ground when you’re finished. It’s specific enough that it probably won’t come up, but just trust me. She will scream at you.

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    1 rose works well in a small vase.

    2 roses means the go left and right, which looks weird.

    4 roses are the same, either it’s unbalanced or split.

    3 and 5 mean you have an even number, plus a middle.

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        What’s weird is that recently I only ever see it used inappropriately. The thing being highlighted in this meme wasn’t particularly objectionable or weird, so pulling a “Nobody:” on it just makes it look like OP is desperately trying to crowbar their observation into a meme.

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          Seems a bit like engagement farming. If you use some word/phrase incorrectly, there are going to be people that are going to be commenting on it. So on algorithm-driven platforms, the post would be ranked higher.

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      Yep, Russia alone is 140m people (and Romania is like 15-20 I believe). Not like I am superstitious, but I never bought even numbers of flowers so not to be misunderstood. An exception is when there is “a lot” of flowers, then nobody cares.

    • Takapapatapaka@tarte.nuage-libre.fr
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      It is also present in France, i heard about never making an even bouquet, and judging by the internet, it’s because it’s also meant for funerals.

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        From what I knew it’s because you bought an even number, kept one (that’s the important part) and offered the (now odd) bouquet. When your flower had wilted, you knew you could offer another one.

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          That would make sense ! When i heard about it, it was florists advising to buy an even number from the start, so the meaning of it probably got lost somewhere, but i like the explanation.

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        It’s quite present here in Eastern Hungary. Countless times was asked by my older relatives if I made sure to buy odd numbers of roses for my gf

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            Well the way I did it when buying flowers as a kid was I’d go in, ask the price for whatever I wanted, and then ask for 2, and the florist would be like “oh you can’t have 2, evens are for funerals” so I’d say I don’t want just 1 just I want it to look like a bigger bouquet, and I only have pocket change for 2, and the florist being nice would throw in a 3rd (usually cheaper tbf) flower in for free :3

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            It’s like a whole hidden world :3… generally I think it depends a lot on the area and on the age group, and other factors, like this kind of superstition isn’t as common in younger people or in bigger cities from my anecdotal observations, so it’s really a flip of the coin if you’ve encountered it or not

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              nono it’s still good to at least be aware of, i know one of my grandmas is really superstitious and i wouldn’t want to upset her

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      Not in Lithuania. Edit: I hadn’t heard of it, but the person below corrected me, it exists but I just hadn’t heard of it.

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        I’m Lithuanian and I have an early childhood memory of gifting somebody four dandelions for birthday and my parents told me it should be an odd number of flowers for a gift. I don’t think I’ve heard it mentioned since, but it’s a thing. I don’t think most people would care either way, at worst a florist might have a shifty look if you buy an even number of flowers.

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    Romania’s relationship with flowers is weird and it freaks me out.

    Going there for the first time and finding weird flower selling stalls in every corner is a very surreal moment and if you dare ask for an explanation people look at you like you are about to be wrapped in roses and sacrificed to some weird pagan deity.

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      For people who grew up under Soviet occupation, it was one of the few forms of beauty that could not be stumped out.