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SolidShake@lemmy.world to No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world · 19 hours ago

What are you doing when you call someone, don't leave a voicemail or text, they call you back right away but you don't answer?

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What are you doing when you call someone, don't leave a voicemail or text, they call you back right away but you don't answer?

SolidShake@lemmy.world to No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world · 19 hours ago
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  • njm1314@lemmy.world
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    12 hours ago

    If somebody doesn’t leave a message why would I call them back?

  • lemmy_outta_here@lemmy.world
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    18 hours ago

    probably moving on to the next task in my to do list. my phone is not attached to my hand

    • SolidShake@lemmy.worldOP
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      I get that but even if you were to sprint away from your phone at full speed you’d still hear the ringtone and be maybe 1 foot away. I’m literal when I mean “call back right away”. Like if I’m working and I see a phone call, and I go to hit “answer” but the call ends just before. And then I call them back within 5 seconds. There’s no way your phone is on a table and you’re 10 yards away.

      • ℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠@slrpnk.net
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        18 hours ago

        What kind of sociopath has their phone ringer on in 2025?

        • starlinguk@lemmy.world
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          48 minutes ago

          People who work freelance and lose jobs when they miss a phone call.

        • Little8Lost@lemmy.world
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          7 hours ago

          I do, but im getting called rarely and my number is still save from scam lists so every call is probably important

        • andrewta@lemmy.world
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          12 hours ago

          I run a business. If my phone rings and I don’t answer the customer is probably calling the next business. That’s not good for me.

        • SolidShake@lemmy.worldOP
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          14 hours ago

          I do. It’s the Austin Powers ringer

      • klemptor@startrek.website
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        14 hours ago

        Ringtone? My dude, the only people I know who have their ringer volume on are all in their seventies.

        • SolidShake@lemmy.worldOP
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          13 hours ago

          Man I’m only 38. I just can’t hear my phone vibrate when I’m working on a car lol.

  • surewhynotlem@lemmy.world
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    13 hours ago

    You had your chance and lost it.

  • Iced Raktajino@startrek.website
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    15 hours ago

    If I indulged my terrible impulses, I’d probably be laughing to myself and saying “Yeah, how do you like it?”

  • JTskulk@lemmy.world
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    17 hours ago

    Calling someone else.

    • DrDystopia@lemy.lol
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      I’d rather get sent straight to voice mail than hang around in the limbo that “Call waiting” is.

  • edgemaster72@lemmy.world
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    19 hours ago

    Decompressing from the idea of making a call

    • SolidShake@lemmy.worldOP
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      18 hours ago

      Even for family members?

      Relatable

      • 𝕱𝖎𝖗𝖊𝖜𝖎𝖙𝖈𝖍@lemmy.world
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        18 hours ago

        Especially for family members

        • starlinguk@lemmy.world
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          Are you my cousin?

          In which case, bury your dad already, Gunther. It’s been 5 years.

        • Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world
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          Ohfuckohfuckohfuckohfuck.

          My sister the trump supporter is calling. Whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy. Oh, it went to voicemail. Luckily I keep my voicemail full.

          • andrewta@lemmy.world
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            Plot twist: she was calling to say a relative is in critical condition at the hospital

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    Driving or going to the bathroom.

  • Mediocre_Bard@lemmy.world
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    I was obligated to call but did not want to make the call. Now I can report back that the call was made and that there was no asnwer.

    • HasturInYellow@lemmy.world
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      Yeah to be honest, this was in most cases the best possible result.

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      Perfect score. Social obligations fulfilled: 100%. Words spoken: 0. Emotional energy cost: 40%.

    • DrDystopia@lemy.lol
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      You technically did your job, nobody can fault you!

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    Ignoring my phone because I prefer to text anyway, so you not answering was a massive relief to me. Chances are if you text instead I’ll respond, or can leave a voice mail, but honestly if I didn’t leave a message or send a text about it, it wasn’t important enough/mission critical in the first place so don’t worry about it

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    If I called, it was an emergency, and I can’t answer the phone because I’m elbow-deep in emergency.

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      You only call people in an emergency? How do you communicate with people outside of shouting range for less important topics?

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        I don’t

      • ℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠@slrpnk.net
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        I send them text messages if it’s not urgent.

  • Brkdncr@lemmy.world
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    19 hours ago

    I don’t answer calls.

    • EnsignWashout@startrek.website
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      Exactly. My phone is for texting and calling out. Receiving calls is an unfortunate bug.

  • 🇰 🌀 🇱 🇦 🇳 🇦 🇰 🇮 @pawb.social
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    I didn’t want a talk to you in the first place but was obligated to try.

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    Butt dialing with a silenced phone?

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      Depends on the person, an ass could pass for face id.

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        You’ve never seen someone put their phone in their pocket or purse, without turning off the screen first?
        I’ve seen lots of people do that. A couple times I pointed out why it’s not a good idea. But people who do it, just don’t seem to care. My mother has done this exact thing to me several times. She calls me back later, when she sees that I called her, wondering what I wanted.

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    fair enough, i guess it depends on how fast you call back

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