A 13-year-old student was expelled from a Louisiana middle school after hitting a male classmate who she said created and shared a deepfake pornographic image of her, according to her family’s lawyers.___

  • _haha_oh_wow_@sh.itjust.works
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    39
    ·
    edit-2
    11 hours ago

    I got suspended for defending myself against getting hit in the head with a chair when I was a kid. School policies are totally fucked. Guess they just wanted me to stand there and sustain massive head trauma? Assholes.

    • Comrade_Spood@quokk.au
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      16
      ·
      edit-2
      9 hours ago

      I got a friday night detention for throwing one punch at a student who was attacking me. I threw that punch after descalation did not work, and as soon as I saw a teacher I signalled for help. My dad confronted the vice principle who was the one who gave me the punishment and my dad asked him what I should have done. The VP told my dad I did as I should have and as what was expected, but that the school has a zero tolerance policy so I still needed to be punished.

      • deliriousdreams@fedia.io
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        6
        ·
        5 hours ago

        Yep. I have been suspended twice for fighting. In both cases the other person hit me first. The first time it happened I didn’t even somebody throw a puncha and had not time to even defend myself. The second time I did defend myself, but it literally involves pushing the person away.

        In both cases the school administration did not care and my parents went up to the school to make complaints.

        Ita bullshit, but this is exactly the problem. Schools have zero tolerance policies to protect themselves rather than to protect students.

      • _haha_oh_wow_@sh.itjust.works
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        17
        ·
        edit-2
        9 hours ago

        Yep, if you’re getting suspended no matter what you do, might as well go to town so that everyone else is to afraid to try again next time because of what happened to the last attacker.

        Effectively, it’s an enticement to escalate violence rather than try and diffuse the situation once violence starts.

        • shalafi@lemmy.world
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          4
          ·
          4 hours ago

          “They pull a knife, you pull a gun. He sends one of yours to the hospital, you send one of his to the morgue. That’s the Chicago Way.”

        • khannie@lemmy.world
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          9
          ·
          7 hours ago

          We’ve a great phrase for that here:

          “May as well be hung for a sheep as a lamb”

          (i.e. if you’re going to be hung it doesn’t matter if they call you a sheep or a lamb so press on)

          • JustinTheGM@ttrpg.network
            link
            fedilink
            English
            arrow-up
            1
            ·
            2 hours ago

            I always understood that phrase as more like “no point in half measures if the consequences are the same”, because a lamb is a small sheep.