• BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today
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    2 days ago

    Cunnilingus is something they NEVER get right in porn.

    Don’t go directly to the target (clit) immediately. Sneak up on it with light kisses and licks, on her tummy, inner thighs, etc., always getting closer. TAKE YOUR TIME. However slow you are going, go even slower, stretch it out, make the anticipation agonizing. Explore everything else before you finally nail the target.

    Develop a few different techniques to apply to her clit, licking, sucking, pressure, soft, hard, slow, fast, responding to her reactions. Quick licks, followed by a few seconds of sucking, then a release, and more licking, is highly effective. Encourage her to tell you what’s working for her.

    Use your fingers, but they are mostly supporting players. Learn how to find the G-spot, and concentrate your digital efforts there, while your tongue cycles through your clitty repertoire.

    You may find that she’s holding back, waiting for the main event to come, but encourage her to come before you move on to anything anything else. In fact, don’t even let her do ANYTHING to you until you’ve made her come with your mouth. As she gets into it, she may stiffen up, and get quiet, but that’s great, she’s just concentrating on getting there. DON’T change anything, just keep doing what you’re doing, and she will explode.

    After that, it’s your turn, and YOU will be richly rewarded.