I’ve never had a problem being attracted to normal women. For me what it kills is my tolerance for being shot down. Like if I don’t expect they’ll reciprocate my advances I’m not going to bother. It’s nice because it also means I’m not doing a bunch of shit I don’t really want to do in the first place in the hopes of a minimal chance of getting laid. I’ll hang out with women I think are cool and If someone I like comes onto me I’m happy to oblige them but otherwise I’m content to mind my own business and just do whatever else I want. No need to bring sex into it if they’re not hyped about it anyway.