• kieron115@startrek.website
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    3 hours ago

    “happy wife happy life” seems so… antiquated though.

    edit i think my viewpoint might be because my parents were both born in the early 1950s and very much reinforce the “boomer” stereotypes. i think both people in a partnership should be happy, to be clear.

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      4 hours ago

      How so? I derive great joy from bringing joy to my loved ones. Love and happiness is greater when shared with others.

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      6 hours ago

      There’s truth in the saying though, since doing something nice to someone else feels good. And if that someone is a loved one, who you likely spend a lot of your time with/around, then that feeling is amplified.

      Also it’s much more fun to spend time with people who are in a good mood than them being in a sour one.